The Victimized Healer Archetype
One of the things I have seen playing out in the ethers collectively within the Spiritual World recently is the Victimized Healer Archetype.
The Victimized Healer:
Victimized by life
Victimized by their own choices
Victimized by their own work
Victimized by their own gifts
Victimized by their own lack of boundaries
Victimized by their own starving artist persona they have created
Victimized by their own Power.
It is loud in the Spiritual World, I am beginning to see it more and more as more people walk this path. And as this field of work grows + the ned for it grows, which it will continue to do as more people are awakening, we need to be ensuring that the Spaces we hold as Facilitators + the Spaces we enter as Participants are held with a high level of integrity and embodiment.
Because there is a reality that when Space Holders are working from the Victimized Healer Archetype, they are not rooted in their body + in fact, they are living from a very young part of themselves, a part that doesn’t want to take full responsibility for their choices, their lived experience or their reality.
Those that feel victimised instinctively pour out blame onto others, and this will not only show up in their work but it will be a thread through their whole life.
And this is where discernment is vital with who you choose to let into your energy field for ‘healing’ + transformational purposes, they are not the true embodiment of their work, if they are not able to take responsibility for their own life choices, they are unlikely to be able to hold you through any true + sustained transformation.
Are the people you are choosing to do the deep work with evidence of what is possible?
Do their lives reflect the potency of the transformation available?
Or are you a Space Holder yourself, reading this + feeling the stirs of recognition in this piece of writing?
Knowing that you are here to serve spaces that are deep, potent + embodied but have yet to integrate some of the wisdom you are here to share in your spaces and through life?
For those of you who are Space Holders, you are invited to join me in April 2025 for my 9 week training Embodied Holder where you will dive into:
Your own resource, think; energy, time, money, health, boundaries, your nervous system,
Your own medicine you are here to offer (which has nothing to do with the modalities you are trained in),
The depth the spaces you hold can go based on the depths within yourself you are able to access,
How + where your wounding shows up in the spaces you are holding + how to begin the integration process.
This training is rich with depth + your own embodied awakening.
This training is not only about your Spaces offering more depth for your students + clients, its about You and your own embodied journey and integration.
This training is the myofascial weave that will connect all your other trainings together, so that you can awaken the medicine you are here to serve in this Life.